Love, every one would want very much to love or be loved. Of course I, me and myself included. In the past, I know nuts about loving one self. I was suicidal, I was always hot- tempered and I was just having those bad habits.(for those who know. :)) But there were people who loved me through those moments and stuck with me to the end. When I looked back, I thought "How foolish was I??" I've hurt my parents, myself and most importantly, God He Himself. God has really transformed me from a good- for- nothing into a child of God, a mighty warrior, a person who puts others' interests before self for Him. You see? God uses nothing and changes it into something that He can use to show His love and power to the fallen world.
In my dictionary, love is not only just a feeling, it's a commitment, it's responsibility, it's the urge to be there for someone who ignores what the world says about them and continues to run after God fervently without caring for his dignity, it's thinking of the person now and then, thanking the Lord twice for his pressence in your life. I believe that love is 1 Corinthians 13. I will be patient, I will be kind. I will not envy, I will not boast, I will not be proud. I will not be rude, I will not be selfish, I will not be easily angered, I will keep no record of wrongs. I will not delight in evil but will rejoice with the truth. I will always protect, trust, hope and perservere in you.
When we begin to change 1 Corinthians 13 into "I", we'll begin to see a different picture of love. Love that does not rely on worldly and flesh desires but just for the interests of the other party, be it a good friend or the special one. I believe that being in a relationship with someone special ought to draw both I and him closer to God, not drifting away from Him. In my years of covenant, I've come to realize what do I really think of the word L- O- V- E. I don't want to be in a relationship just because I want to, I don't want to be in a relationship in which only because the guy is handsome, I don't want to be in a relationship with a non- christian (no offence), I don't want to be in a relationship when he
thinks that he likes me. On the other hand, I would want to be in a relationship which will draw me and my special one closer to the One who made us to be together, I want to be in a relationship in regardless of the man's features but his heart for God, I want to be in a relationship with a christian, I want to be in a relationship when we know that we're so in love with each other and know that we're meant for each other. That's why I pray really hard for my first to be my last.
Oh well, that's my point of view in love. Thank you for reading of you're still reading.